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KiboGaAru (original poster member #83847) posted at 2:16 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2024
Just wanted to share to everyone that it's finally happening! 
The car (our family car) that my WH & AP used to do their deeds, dates, etc etc will be gone in few days (4 days)!
We went to the dealership yesterday and had a pretty decent deal. They had the car in stock so we don't need to wait that long.
Aahhhhh! This for me alone is a reason to celebrate! 
Lostwings ( member #79902) posted at 6:34 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2024
Congratulations !!
Hopefully this will be a start for your healing !!
I thought it was love at the end of the rainbow , but a banshee came and almost destroyed my pot of gold . In R.
SadieMae ( member #42986) posted at 1:43 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2024
Congratulations! Getting rid of my trigger car helped me so much.
I hope this brings you peace and calmness.
Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF
Notaboringwife ( member #74302) posted at 2:23 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2024
Well done!
I’m happy for you!
fBW. My scarred heart has an old soul.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 2:44 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2024
My H got rid of his car after I found out the OW was in it.
Never so happy to see that car go.
Good for you for removing a trigger from your life.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
KiboGaAru (original poster member #83847) posted at 12:58 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2024
Thank you everyone! 😊
Although, I forgot to mention, my WH is not so happy about it due to financial set back because of this.
But who cares! 😂 I told him it is not my fault why we are in this situation anyway.
He should have thought about this when he did all the stupid stuff with his AP. Oh well, I'm still happy that the car will be out soon!
Groot1988 ( member #84337) posted at 5:53 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2024
I am SO HAPPY FOR You!
My h traded my van in just for driving it to her house (he swears he was always in her car but…)
I can’t imagine how I would have felt knowing they used the family car… I would have burned it to the ground knowing my brain.
I still can’t see my h in the back seat for any reason (trigger) so lucky me, I have to buckle in 3 kids alone :)
Anyways, this is a huge win for you! Congrats, I hope this helps heal!
Married 5 years (together 11) Four children Me Bs 36Him WH 35- 4 month PA Dday Oct 6- lots of TT final disclosure Jan 16.
"If we walk through hell we might as well hold hands, we should make this a home"- citizen soldier
WTAF ( member #79274) posted at 8:17 PM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2024
Awesome!
Getting rid of our trigger car was huge for me. Congratulations on the new car.
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