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New Beginnings :
Grateful for changes in my life, sad for news of a friend

Topic is Sleeping.
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 Simplicity (original poster member #60501) posted at 3:01 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2024

So many things have happened for me in the last few years. I don't know who remembers me here anymore, but I received so much good support and advice from people here when things seemed so terrible and impossibly dark. I have since remarried, got all my professional specialty certifications, bought a place, and made a small human with my now husband. I didn't know happiness and stability would come back in my life. I was told one day I would have many precious things in my future, and it was so hard to believe that then!

What brought me back is a grade school friend told me about her husband's infidelity and it briefly brought me back to that terrible time. I gave her advice where I could, and told her about my experience when she asked. I also suggested she come here, and I really hope she does. This is truly a great place for healing, and if she comes here, I know she will get some comfort in good company.

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Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2024

Simplicity, Your name is ringing some bells for me! Glad to read your huge update!

How did you do so many new things, and never tell us??! I for one would have loved to have had your positive stories along the way! Kinda jealous, to be honest...

Sorry to know that the pain of a friend brought you back here. Yet I'm confident you can support her IRL!

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:24 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2024

Of course we remember you simplicity! So happy to hear that you are in a wonderful place and a wonderful relationship. But so sad to hear that a friend of yours has had to join our unfortunate group. I hope that they find the support and resources here that has helped so many of us.

Congratulations on your new beginning and your amazing new life.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 1:59 AM on Monday, August 26th, 2024

So happy for you! It is always good to hear positive stories.

Sorry your friend is experiencing this.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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