Webbit (original poster member #84517) posted at 3:24 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024
So, we all live in a relatively small place in Australia. My WH and I work in the exact same industry but we each work for the competition. I am an Assistant Manager who is responsible for all the HR and he is an area supervisor.
On Monday he found out his business is closing down. The OW still works there in a different department. Today the boss of this company comes over for a meeting with our management team with a list of staff with high potential and that we may like to hire. And fuck me – that bitch is on the list. It took all my strength to hold my tongue while he only spoke high praise and in telling me how smart she is.
All I wanted to do is scream and say "well she is not that fucking smart if she thought she had a hope in hell of being hired by me".
What a day!
Stillconfused2022 ( member #82457) posted at 3:27 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024
Please tell me you have the ability to be sure she is never hired
NoThanksForTheMemories ( member #83278) posted at 5:30 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024
Ooof, Webbit. Your tongue must be sore from having bitten it so hard!
WH had a 3 yr EA+PA from 2020-2022, and an EA 10 years ago (different AP). Dday1 Nov '22. Dday4 Sep '23. False R for 2.5 months. 30 years together. Staying for the teenager.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:08 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024
I hope this turns into a karma story. Don’t do anything that I get your job, endangered, but it would be great to not have her there.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 7:08 AM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
Please tell me you can have some input into this situation and she is not being hired at your company.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Webbit (original poster member #84517) posted at 11:16 AM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
I’m positive she won’t work for us but it was bloody hard to hear praise for someone who played a part in destroying your marriage.
Sad part is she probably is amazing at her job!
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:34 PM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
She may be great at what she does - BFD. Do her actions align with your company's values and mission? Doesn't line up for me.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
