Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 7:04 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Ran into the OBS in my situation. Never gets easy. He pointed me to this site, which has been a godsend. I’m glad to report, he’s doing well. Even told me to tell my FWH hello from him (unironically). Wished us both well. He said, the A was a blessing in disguise for him….5 years post divorce. He’s dating someone wonderful and his children are doing well.
I’m going blame all this on the OW.
EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 7:36 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Thanks for the update. So happy to hear he's doing well.
I’m going blame all this on the OW.
She really must be a piece of work if her ex feels friendly towards her AP for triggering the end of their marriage.
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 7:48 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Thanks for the update. I remember him well. He seemed like a genuinely good guy and he gave his WW every opportunity to show remorse. Good to hear he is doing well.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
Ladybugmaam (original poster member #69881) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
When I described her following yet again to the locker room at the gym.....he said he's "stopped trying to psychoanalyze her"....and that as long as his kids were ok, he has nothing to do with her.
EA DD 11/2018
PA DD 2/25/19
One teen son
I am a phoenix.
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
I am confused if it is code that I do not understand yet or is the prosecution of a story posted somewhere else.
Anyway I believe unless the WS is truly strong enough to change, losing them it is a blessing, so he is blessed after all.
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