horseluvr ( member #30097)		posted at 5:14 AM on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011	
			 
	Thank you!!Wish I had this info last year!  Good stuff! 
 
			 			BS me WS him...3 great kids 
DD 10-09 OW younger but doesnt look it,face looks like a dried up cow pie..note to c**tface:sunscreen
		
	 	 			
				    				hurttothebone ( member #30767)		posted at 5:55 PM on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011	
		 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 6:59 PM on Monday, January 24th, 2011	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				hurttothebone ( member #30767)		posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, January 25th, 2011	
		 			
				    				Take2 ( member #23890)		posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011	
				"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?   		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 4:14 AM on Sunday, January 30th, 2011	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 10:20 AM on Monday, January 31st, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 7:25 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2011	
			 			
				    				unarmbears ( member #7480)		posted at 6:06 AM on Sunday, February 6th, 2011	
				FBS-Me, 67              
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie		
	 	 			
				    				girlfromipanema ( member #30976)		posted at 12:37 AM on Monday, February 7th, 2011	
			 
	Thank you for compiling this excellent and empowering thread. 
 
			 			Married: 8 Years
Me: BS
Husband had LTA (5 years) with former close friend of mine.
Attempting Reconciliation		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 10:42 PM on Monday, February 7th, 2011	
			 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 7:00 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011	
			 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 2:14 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 10:56 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011	
			 
	Bumper stumper jumper do 
 
 
	bump this post for all those who 
 
 
	need this wisdom to get along 
 
 
	and need to read this, though it's long 
 
			 			The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				deadlywhispers ( new member #30846)		posted at 6:22 AM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2011	
			 
	Thank you so much for collecting these posts.  I just read them and they have been sooo helpful! 
 
			 	 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 12:05 PM on Thursday, February 17th, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 4:54 PM on Saturday, February 19th, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 11:50 AM on Monday, February 21st, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				lordmayhem ( member #30526)		posted at 1:51 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2011	
			 
	bump! 
 
 
	I wish I had read this last June. 
 
			 			BH-me, 45 
fWW-her, 50 
Married 21 yrs
2 kids (21, 12)
D-Day: 06/11/10 
In R at this time
		
	 	 			
				    				Feb 8, 2011 ( member #31137)		posted at 1:53 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2011	
				D-Day see username
and maybe March 11, 11
 ME: 45 yr old BH
Her: 40 yr old WW
3 kids
married 11 years
Who is this woman in my house?!