Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 6:37 AM on Wednesday, December 7th, 2016
Losfer - Menz
Just 'cos.
I also spent part of my evening up inflatable Santa and inflatable Frosty's ass tonight
Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 5:01 PM on Thursday, December 15th, 2016
Sparkle0504 in D/S on what it's like when your SAWH decides he prefers his addiction:
I'm still dumbfounded that someone could think so little of himself that he'd rather live such a shitty, dark, meaningless life.
This encapsulates so much of the betrayed experience, especially those of us who end up in D/S after giving our waywards a chance to show remorse, clean up their act and live a meaningful, connected life.
[This message edited by Hawke at 11:04 AM, December 15th (Thursday)]
Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, January 19th, 2017
Bigger:
I think infidelity costs us so much. I don’t see any profit in allowing it to cost us our dignity, humanity and sense of self-worth.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:30 PM on Thursday, January 26th, 2017
There is such a difference between waywards who say "I'm tired of fucking up, I'm not going to do that any more" and the ones who say "I fucked up but I'm human, I'm trying!" Stop trying. Just do.
Rebreather in 'I Need Support' in R
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 5:08 PM on Saturday, January 28th, 2017
Okokok just said...
While he is a priority to you, you are an option to him.
Simply BRILLIANT!!!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 7:00 PM on Saturday, January 28th, 2017
Northerngirl888, when distraught over the words to Dolly Pardon's song "Jolene" -----
Here's a song: Jolene you can fucking have him.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 7:52 AM on Monday, January 30th, 2017
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 2:25 AM on Tuesday, January 31st, 2017
GabyBaby...when offering names we call the OW:
Granny Tranny (no offense to actual transexuals, but this woman looked like she was old enough to be his grandfather. You read that correctly.
Also, hisloss:
"Whoreshit"
Priceless!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 1:35 PM on Saturday, February 11th, 2017
Messeditallup replying on Su24s thread in the WW forum.
Su24 wants his gf back. He cheated. She took a trip to Mexico and cheated with an ugly Italian man.
There's only one solution to fix this and even the score. You must go to Cancun and have sex with an Italian man.
D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks
"My faith is mine now."
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 9:18 PM on Monday, February 20th, 2017
If you need to put your penis in something to heal your self esteem - well that speaks volumes.
sassylee in a thread about RAs.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 6:14 AM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
That last one - that's a good one sassylee! That's a quote I would like to cross stitch on a pillow.....
Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing
chopper ( member #5772) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, March 7th, 2017
Her head is so far up her ass she can see the back of her own teeth.
h0peless
Me BS(52) (39 at DD)
WH passed away on 3/21/2013(52) (44 at DD)
2 Kids S(27) D(24) (14 and 11 at DD)
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."–George MacDonald
"Not being able to govern events, I govern myself." –
Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 8:42 AM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2017
Alice loved and was going to marry Bruce, but Carolina showed up at the door and said that Bruce would dump Alice if she wanted him to. Firstly, wtf Carolina, then wtf Bruce, then wtf Alice? Alice said ok, but I'm still getting married. Bruce said ok. Carolina said ok, but I'm going to keep stalking you because I'm not interested, but I am.
Then Denver showed up, who was married to Edith and also seeing Francine and Georgia but he told Alice that he really loved her. They dated in secrecy while Alice remained with Bruce. And then Alice got jealous of Edith and told her, and Denver said Oh Hell No and dumped Alice. Bruce somehow knew about the Affair? And said No Alice, stay! And their daughter Hannah said No Alice, stay! But Alice said, Oh but Denver loved me. And I loved him. And I'm so sad. Firstly wtf Alice. Wtf Bruce. Wtf Hannah.
Anyway, a whole lotta wtf here. But at the beginning and for everything else the entire thing started and was perpetuated you.
-Tessthemess
D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks
"My faith is mine now."
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:19 PM on Tuesday, April 4th, 2017
It's kind of like someone put an olive on a toothpick in my shit sandwich. How could I not wait to dig in???
WritenowMel88 in for a win, with a great rant!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 1:11 AM on Tuesday, April 18th, 2017
Oh you didn't read this obscure thesis that supports my insane tangent, making me the victor of this one-sided argument.
Mouthkeptshut in a General thread about double standards.
I die.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:07 PM on Thursday, April 20th, 2017
Freetogonow, with an epic burn!
My wh is leaving me in part because he "can't handle" my depression. He and I are heavily involved with a dog rescue org that posts frequently on fb.
Him(indignant and self righteous): did you see that dog they posted about today? 20 yrs old, deaf and blind, and the owner said she couldn't deal with it so they dumped it at the shelter.
Me (calmly): some people can't handle when things get hard. You can probably relate to that.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 6:06 PM on Monday, April 24th, 2017
Um, how to describe this? It's like Satan ate boiled eggs, pinto beans and sauerkraut and then took a massive dump in the living room. It is horrible.
HFSSC describing the smell in a hoarding situation.
Makes me laugh every time I read it while simultaneously trying not to gag 
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
ThisIsBS ( member #57874) posted at 12:40 PM on Sunday, June 4th, 2017
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.
--Friedrich Nietzsche
ThisIsBS
Me: 43 / WH: 51 Married 23 years
DD and DS Older teens
DDay April 2016
"Beauty is truth, truth beauty,—that is all
Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know." --John Keats
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:13 PM on Tuesday, June 27th, 2017
M1965 -
We never forgive an act; we only ever forgive people.
That made me understand why I could forgive my W while I still believe cheating is unforgivable.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 8:57 AM on Tuesday, July 4th, 2017
He can store his tools under his bed, in his bed, in his truck, up any chosen part of his anatomy, but it stays with him until the next scheduled dog visitation time.
DarylB replying to freetogonow on her xwh doing replacement brake work in her garage.
D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks
"My faith is mine now."
