Vocalion ( member #82921) posted at 12:39 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2024
When everything fell apart with my WW's initial attempt to curate every piece of information that she thought I might know about her.later affairs, I dug into her old computers, as I was sure she had been secretly hooking up with someone she did volunteer work with.a guy who acted very nervous and jittery when I met him at a volunteer worker dinner. Surprise! I found a locked Twitter account opened at a time she had been acting very hinky, and a wiped clean Instagram account. I was never able to prove anything, and she deleted the accounts within a couple of days of my discovery of the acccounts which she had disingenuously claimed were not hers, but set up.by somebody who had hacked her computer. So my guess is that something fishy is in the works with your wife's request.. reeks of manipulation to me.
When she says you're the only one she'll ever love, and you find out, that you're not the one she's thinking of,That's when you're learning the game.Charles Hardin ( Buddy) Holly...December 1958
RealityBlows ( member #41108) posted at 12:44 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2024
Ok, let’s say if she did indeed forget about having WhatsApp, why does she think that it’s a good idea to possess an app, commonly used by cheaters, just 9-years post infidelity that involved the use of said apps?
And, don’t confront prematurely, because when you do you get this result, nothing conclusive or actionable. I would have let this WhatsApp thing play out before confronting.
[This message edited by RealityBlows at 12:44 AM, Friday, September 13th]
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BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 12:31 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2024
So I’ll ask again: Did this happen in 2022 or a few days ago? Which post was accurate?
BW, 40s
Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried
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