SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 5:37 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
Wow! This is the truth; I wish my husband would read it. He probably won't, though.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 6:14 PM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 2:29 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
MomtoRoses ( member #42271) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, April 29th, 2014
i'm the bs
he is the wh.
7 ddays: affairs, online activities, ea, pa, longterm pa,longterm ea, one night stands.
I'm the last to know.
Gemstone ( member #42000) posted at 4:08 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
There needs to be a way to have this permanently at the top
Wonderful
Trying2LoveAgain ( member #43024) posted at 4:10 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
Awesome! This describes the way we,as BS, feel and what we go through. My H has told me many times that he doesn't always know WHAT to do for me, or HOW to help. This is a great guide! I hope it stays posted on here forever! Thanks SO much!
Me:BS
Him:FWH
2 DS:2 D Grandchildren
"Life is a journey, travel with Care "...Me 🙈🙉🙊"Life is not a dress rehearsal, make the ONE you have count"....Me
BrokenButTrying ( member #42111) posted at 9:36 PM on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014
Madhatters - We have R'd.
Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. We can do this.
Mjuu ( new member #43386) posted at 2:06 PM on Saturday, May 10th, 2014
Thank you ever so much for posting this, and thank you whoever wrote it!
Since I found out about the affair 1,5 years ago I've been in a complete despair, fighting pretty much solo for my marriage and with a 1,5 year old to take care of (I know: I was one month from delivery when I found out).
I found this webpage only yesterday and it feels like it has saved my life, and hopefully also my marriage. Thank you all for sharing.
Me: BW age 32
Him: WH age 35
Together for 2,5 years, 1 child.
Long-distance relationship; he slept with another woman when I was away. Was expecting our child when I found out.
isthismynewlife ( member #43292) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, May 13th, 2014
Me 42 BS
Him 42 FWS
DDay #1 11/28/13 - 7 months EA/a little PA with my supposed friend.
DDAy #2 8/25/14 - oops - did I forget to mention that it was a 15 month PA/EA? He thought the first version would hurt me less.
Things are improving daily!
remorsefulww ( member #42029) posted at 5:21 PM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014
DD 1 2009 EA/PA, DD 2 2014, broke nc 2015.All the same AP
His DD 9/16/2015 ONS & EA,PA with coworker.
Mad Hatters
WW/BW Me
BH/WHJSG1
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:30 PM on Friday, May 30th, 2014
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 8:36 PM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014
Bump. 
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 7:00 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 9:02 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 2:58 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 9:25 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 7:39 AM on Tuesday, July 29th, 2014
Me 52 (BS) Him 60 (EXSAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.
Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 8:45 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 7:51 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
