Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:33 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 11:02 PM on Monday, December 8th, 2014
Great update. All the important links too.
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 2:57 PM on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Ready2beFree ( member #45913) posted at 3:57 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this great post!!!!!!
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 4:10 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014
These are great pieces of advice to help us all. Thank you for bumping this.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Remember ( new member #46025) posted at 3:22 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014
Me: 33
Her: 27
D-Day: 12/16/2014
Status: Trying to find my way again
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=548985
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:28 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:17 AM on Thursday, December 25th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:59 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2015
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 6:52 PM on Wednesday, January 7th, 2015
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:02 PM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:22 AM on Sunday, January 18th, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:27 AM on Thursday, January 22nd, 2015
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:48 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:18 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 4:32 AM on Sunday, February 8th, 2015
Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015
bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:35 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 12:29 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
