Pursuingpeace (original poster new member #86787) posted at 3:48 PM on Sunday, January 11th, 2026
I’ve browsed the section "Books". There are so many titles. I was wondering if there are any specific recommendations. I’m just lost and torn. I’m finding it hard to heal.
Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 3:57 PM on Sunday, January 11th, 2026
The books that helped me most were Shirley Glass’s Not Just Friends and Steven Stosny’s Living and Loving after Betrayal. The latter was especially good for helping me get my feet back under me and regain my sense of self and well-being when I felt completely lost and unmoored and struggled with feeling worthless in the aftermath of discovering my husband’s affair. The former was good for us to read as a couple.
Husband had six month affair with co-worker. Found out 7/2020. Married 20 years at that point; two teenaged kids. Reconciling.
