SorryFreddy (original poster new member #87955) posted at 4:27 PM on Saturday, November 14th, 2026
I returned from a two-day trip which is nothing unusual for me. I found my best friend's name tattooed on my wife's ass. She says that nothing happened, that they just got bored the other day when he came over and they were waiting for me to get back and as usual, I got delayed. I don't know what I should do, I'd like to give her the benefit of doubt but...am unsure. Is there someone out there who is reading this that can give me some advice or at least their honest opinion of this situation?
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:11 PM on Saturday, November 14th, 2026
I generally have no faith in polygraphs, but it might be useful in this sitch. If she passes, I'd require removal of the tattoo to continue the M.
How can she say 'nothing happened'? She tattooed another guy's name on her butt. Even if boredom was the reason, why wasn't your name chosen? If it were my W, this might be a deal killer, even without a polygraph..
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SorryFreddy (original poster new member #87955) posted at 7:18 PM on Saturday, November 14th, 2026
Thank you for answering I never thought to ask why his name instead of mine, so I just now finished having a not so pleasant talk with her about this. She told me that she didn't think that I'd like her putting my name on her ass because I had never asked her to do it. Which is true, I hadn't. I then asked why she needed any nae at all on that ass and she said that lately she had been feeling neglected and alone so putting his name there made her feel wanted and needed because he is such a good friend of ours. As far as a lie detector test no way she says. I just need to believe her, and everything will be fine, I need to trust her more she says. I suggested getting it covered over, she refuses. It's not only his first name but both names, first and last. I really want to believe her but it's not going to be easy. I just might confront him and see what he says about it.
Letmebefrank ( member #86994) posted at 9:12 PM on Saturday, November 14th, 2026
Freddy,
I’m going to take this at face value and that you’re not trolling here.
While you were away, your wife was with your best friend, pulled her pants down, and got his name tattooed on her ass.
So your "best friend" now has marked that territory as his own. And she’s not getting rid of it. And that made her feel wanted (so I guess your "best friend" wants her?) and needed (why the fuck would that make her feel needed?)
But anyway, now she has another man’s name tattooed on her ass and you just need to trust her more.
Come the fuck on, brother.
