Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none.William Shakespeare "All's Well That Ends Well"D-Day: Nov 30, 2006"For I have sworn thee fair, and thought thee bright, who art as black as hell, as dark as night." William Shakespeare

Trickle truth redux

So the former affair partner tried to contact my FWH several times in May. Their affair was just about all of 2006.

Yeah, she is still trying.

Anyway, I sent a screen shot of her attempts to her husband and let him know what she was up to. I never received an answer from the email but that’s that. I decided to make a timeline of the affair and included phone calls, bank statements, and other material. I just had to see it. I’m a historian by the way, and I had to reconstruct the worst year of my life. I just showed my husband the six pages I’d written and he told me new info. That was a blow. I begged him for years to tell me the entire story but he resisted. Now, 18 years later, I got new info.

One: they rode his motorcycle one day and got a hotel all while I was at an overnight school retreat. This was the bike he didn’t want me on.

Two. He still has the jacket and helmet she used.

Three: the times they had sex went up considerably. All unprotected.

Four: she was definitely screwing around with at least two other men while ‘with’ him. And she was still married.

Some of this I vaguely knew but some was brand new. I just don’t know what to do. Just like in May when she tried to contact him via Facebook, I am right back to square one.

Am I overreacting? Any advice is welcome. My heart is shattered. Again.

3 comments posted: Thursday, July 11th, 2024

Help...asap

My day was almost 18 years ago and the FOW just tried to befriend my husband on Facebook. Should I tell her husband? I have screenshots from her most recent fishing expedition (last freaking week) as well as her last try in 2017 where she told my husband that their " time was real and she will love him forever."

I will send it to his work email.

24 comments posted: Thursday, May 16th, 2024