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carriemcsky

Me: BW, 51 (on DDay) Him: WH, 55 (on DDay) DDay: June 2015 DDay2: July 7,2015 Found out he was still in contact with OW. Status: Trying to R

Spotlight Search on iphone

Last year, after DDay, I was able to go into WH's iphone and saw, through spotlight search, a lot of the texts (well, partial texts) between WH and OW, that of course he had deleted on DDay. He was completely unaware of this function and didn't realize how much information I was getting from this. It was hell to read, but it DID give me a better understanding of their juvenile relationship. And since then, I would occasionally check to make sure that there were no new deleted texts to and from ANYONE. There never was, that I could find.

Anyway, in March of this year, WH got a new iphone 6S. (These are work-provided phones). I no longer can see deleted text messages on spotlight search on his new phone. I actually deleted a few myself to see if they would still show up, and they don't.

Does anybody know why this is not working? I made sure that "messages" are "on" as far as spotlight search goes.

9 comments posted: Friday, July 1st, 2016

Audio recording

I have a recording that I would like to get "cleaned up". The voices are quite hard to hear and there's a lot of background noise.

I am a complete idiot about things like this.

I'd be more than willing to pay someone to do this if they think they can help.

Thanks

2 comments posted: Thursday, May 5th, 2016

Strange Texts

Hoping someone can help me with this. I've had complete access to WH's phone since shortly after DDay. Believe me, I've found A LOT of crap that I'm sure I never would have known about otherwise. This is also his work phone, so he knows in some ways he could be monitored as to what he is looking at, downloading, etc.

So a few weeks ago, on a Sunday afternoon, he got a weird text. It looked like it came from a computer, because there was no number, just an email address. It read that this person had a new Whatsapp #. I went ballistic, and of course he was acting like he didn't know what the heck was going on. I had already been through his phone prior to this, looking for any apps that he could be getting and deleting, etc. Nothing. He doesn't know that I can see every single app he's ever gotten and deleted. I found nothing that looked odd. No social media, no texting apps, nothing that shouldn't be there, at least for the last 9 months. Then 6 days later, in the middle of the night, another text comes on his phone. Similar, but no whatsapp #, just that this woman was online right now, come see me on there. (It was a woman's name@........com.

Can anyone enlighten me as to what this could be? Is he trolling for women on some site to have online sex with? I hate to think he would put his career at risk by doing something like that with a company phone, but obviously he had an A, so I guess anything is possible. My only other thought is that is OW trying to tear us apart (which in light of her past, is completely believable).

7 comments posted: Tuesday, April 12th, 2016

Need help Dr Fone

I'm trying to recover deleted call history and texts from Iphone 5. I downloaded Dr Fone, but it just keeps telling me I need to have the latest version of itunes. I did that, and still it won't scan. Anybody else have this happen? And what to do about it?

3 comments posted: Tuesday, September 1st, 2015

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