Don't food shop when hungry, or date when you're lonely How others treat you IS a reflection of your SELF worth, but not your actual WORTH.

Thank God it's Friday for real

This week has been horrible. It has included a ridiculous clogged toilet, a front door that got stuck shut with the kids inside and me outside, a "don't fail this class email" I got (it was generic) when I was already super stressed about school, staying not at my house this week, horrible bus stop morning, anxiety through the roof twenty four and seven this week.

Good bye mr. week, you were neither kind nor gentle, but I remain standing and I will kick ass and take names next week :D

1 comment posted: Friday, March 24th, 2017

Anyone interested in San Antonio G2G?

I live in the northwest. I don't have a car. I'm trying to build a new me. I would love to host a get together at my home. Would anyone be interested?

4 comments posted: Friday, February 24th, 2017

Whisper App Check that!

I'm divorcing but I found the whisper app, and I loved it because it's like a live version of Post Secret (confessions). Anyway, many many people use it for hook ups and drug sales.

Many married post about wanting to hook up. It bears checking and we could help each other by looking for your spouse etc and trying to chat. I am in cetnral southern texas.

1 comment posted: Wednesday, February 22nd, 2017

Whenever I see Mod Please

I always think OH NO what did I do.... LOL

I worry I screw up a lot, but thus far I've never been contacted by a mod.

106 comments posted: Friday, January 27th, 2017

Download Entire Facebook History Steps

I used this to have all messages between myself and ex for court. It's easier then scrolling forever and screen shotting.

Click at the top right of any Facebook page and select Settings

Click Download a copy of your Facebook data at the bottom of General Account Settings

Click Start My Archive

Because this download contains your profile information, you should keep it secure and be careful when storing, sending or uploading it to any other services.

6 comments posted: Friday, January 13th, 2017

Dealing with Gaslighting

I joined this site in 2004. I spent hours daily looking for proof of what I knew because I was being gaslighted to believe I was literally insane throughout my entire marriage. gaslighting to me is the cruelest thing you can do to another human being.

I literally searched in places most people never would just to prove I wasn't crazy. I literally wasted years of my life doing this.

If you are being gaslighted on a regular basis there are things you can do to stop the madness in your head. Many email programs such as Yahoo has a notepad function (or you can email yourself). Write out what you KNOW to be true. For example if your WS comes home late one day, detail the information to yourself because later they will test you by saying it never happened etc.

You must protect yourself by keeping track of reality. They are good at what they do and if you can learn from my ignorance and stupidity then it's worth it.

Do not keep written records in your home as they can be found and destroyed.

1 comment posted: Friday, January 13th, 2017