Found a name and email of possible OW what now?

Tried to log on to an email account on my SWH computer and a email automatically appeared in the login window.. I decided to see if the password was saved too and it was which is immediately suspicious considering he has mentioned this email before as being long lost and wishing he could access it as well as his computer being newer then his mentions of said account. I log in pretty much empty. (Again suspicious considering the time that he would have not had access) try looking for contacts none... go to write a new email click on the address box and a single email pops up one belonging to a woman.. I checked Facebook and one profile showed up immediately. We live in the same city went to my highschool is a few years younger I suspect based on mutual friends. I haven't confronted him about anything recently because I want something solid

He has been gas lighting and denying everything all along and I worry that if he knows what I know it will be that much harder to get anything solid.

What can I do now?

[This message edited by TamBak at 5:36 AM, March 3rd, 2017 (Friday)]

2 comments posted: Friday, March 3rd, 2017

Looking for Ashley Madison help/services by other members..

I know we have a thread offering services provided by other members but with the age of it it seems like some of the users may not be active anymore..

I have sent PMs to the members who have said that they had accounts and would be able to try and look up profiles for you but no luck.

So I am wondering if anyone else has an account for Ashley Madison that would be willing to look into my swh.

(I even have his username if it helps).

Also wondering if anyone else tried to contact members about different services from the forum and got little or no response? (Maybe we should try to make an updated list?)

1 comment posted: Tuesday, February 28th, 2017

Time Magazine Special: Science of Marriage.

I apologize if this is not the right place to post this as it isn't actually a book.

However I'm wondering if anyone else read it and what they took from it.

I impulse bought it at the drugstore the other day and read through it between two days. Some of it I knew, some of it was new and interesting.

Some of it I brushed off. (maybe I'm not emotionally ready to accept it at this point)

However I cannot compare it to any of the books dealing more in depth with the topic of infidelity as I have yet to read any at this time.

I think at the end of it all It had me feeling more confident in my abilities of contributing to a healthy marriage and that I was capable of being a wonderful wife. (If that means in my current M or future relationships) it had me reminiscing of reading Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus back in highschool and how I took those lessons with me through my life. And most of all it got me excited for reading more books to help me deal with infidelity.

1 comment posted: Wednesday, February 22nd, 2017