Mother Passed
Hi everyone: I joined here 5 years ago after my wh had an affair. Then in 2019 my current husband had some kind of mental breakdown and did some stupid stuff that amounted to him flirting with other women. We have since reconciled, and were doing well, but these past few years have been really hard. In 2021 I almost died of a blood clot after some minor surgery went wrong. Also dealt with job loss, flooded home, depression, financial issues, health issues, etc. But the final straw was 6 days ago when my mother died unexpectedly of a heart attack (she was only 58) My mom and i fought alot but she has always been my rock. She was there for me through both of my major separations and financial issues, etc. She was also the only one who would ever help care for my 11 old son. (His father lives 3000 miles away. Now I don’t have a Mom and my son doesn’t have his grandma, who was like a 2nd mom. I keep looking for grief groups, but have not found any. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions? I know that grief goes hand and hand with marital problems or endings… the pain is different, but it all hurts worse than anyone should have to bear. This group made a huge difference for me during my past marital issues so i am hoping for you support once again… thank you very much ❤️🩹
15 comments posted: Sunday, March 6th, 2022
