He did the dishes for first time in 30 years

Wh told me 3 months ago he wants a divorce- he is still on my couch! I think mostly do to finances..

I was away last weekend and found a receipt that shows he was with the other woman last weekend.. I confronted him - packed him a bag and told him I want him to go live with her ..I insisted that I would like to drop him off at her house and she could have him…

I go out last night and when I come home- he has done the litter , cleaned the house and is doing dishes.. He hasn’t done dishes in 30 years!

He wants me to go with to the city with him and the kids today- asked me again last night.. I politely told him No..

Any thoughts ?

3 comments posted: Sunday, December 22nd, 2024

Help- wh in house with me during the holidays

Husband has been cheating for years with the same women…and probably other women as well…. I knew about the affair but was hoping he would eventually come to his senses … He didn’t…He told me 3 months ago that he wants a divorce but he is still in the house!!

He continues to see ow while in the house with me and the kids..Found a receipt that proves he saw ow last weekend while I was away!!! I have had enough…. I packed him a bag today and told him I want to drop him off at her house and she can have him… He won’t go ….

And I am very serious I would like to drop him off at her house and she can have him….

3 comments posted: Saturday, December 21st, 2024

Why is he rushing a divorce???

Hello!

I am the betrayed spouse.. I will not get into all the details long story- my ww husband we will call him bob has been having an affair for the last 4 years….we have been married 30 years and have 6 kids.. I have 2 affairs confirmed and suspect he has cheated the entire marriage…

I hit my breaking point a few weeks ago when I came across a hotel reservation on his phone… he hasn’t been sleeping with me lol so the hotel room wasn’t for me lol

I broke every dish in the house.. and told the adult children in the house 28 and 19.. we also have a 16 yr old and 11.. and 2 other kids out of the house..

Any way that was in Sept he immediately asked me for a divorce because he says I turned the kids against him ha ha .. the kids already knew and have known for years smh…

Well he is still in the house plans to move out in Jan and want to file for divorce immediately and wants me to sign a divorce decree.. so what’s the big rush???? He hasn’t even left the house yet…

He is offering a generous settlement but I suspect that he is expecting a huge windfall of cash sometime in 2025 and that’s the reason for the rush..

In our state it mandates a year of separation before filing so I have no idea why he thinks he can file immediately.. I said I want the year of separation and he said that’s okay. It he still want all documents signed in Jan .. back to Jan again sounds suspicious…

When I told him I wanted future profits from his company he told me he is closing his company in Jan and opening a new one in Feb.. again there is Jan again!!!!

When I told him I wasn’t agreeing to anything till after the year separation he became enraged and almost hit me..

I than read his divorce decree that he is writing and the kicker is- he puts down that if I tell other women’s family or friends about the affair that I lose everything..

I laughed tild him he can take his divorce paperwork and shove it where the sun don’t sign…

Meanwhile my state weighs infidelity and domestic abuse in divorce settlements- I have him on both..

He has tried to control me my whole marriage and now he wants to control the divorce- good luck!!!!

11 comments posted: Friday, December 6th, 2024