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Hi,

My story is, I had an emotional affair for an year and then physical for 6 months. Reason for emotional affair is that my husband was never there for me whenever I need him, he use to overwork and completely neglect me and my emotional need. He got to know 2 months back and I am not able to forgive me from that time. I tried to stop the affair earlier but my AP gave me a lot of hope. I have no contact with AP and I am fully remorse and trying to reconcile with my spouse.

From last two months he hasn't spoken to me nicely(obviously) but the sad part is he gets abusive and use bad language and demeaning comments for me. Which hurt me a lot. Not he is on all the dating sites and trying to connect with girls around. We have a 8 year old child and I am scared to loose my family.

I want to try everything to keep this marriage, I want to know if he is abusing me out of anger or he no longer wants to continue? He told me couple of times to separate out of anger and also said he will not give me my son. I can not loose them, I love them. has anyone gone through the similar situation? How long will this continue? Will this ever end? I am not able to understand If he also wants to reconcile. I can not have this conversation with him and he will say its your choice to stay or leave. He has informed my family about my affair but I am thankful that he did not tell his family about it. Please help me.

3 comments posted: Thursday, April 27th, 2023