Don’t know how to feel anymore
3 years ago i found out my husband had been messaging other women . Flirty chat sending rude pictures there was a few of them . He moved out for a while lots of chats later . Individual therapy for both of us and some together . Things have been amazing i feel like we really made a better relationship out of it . Us and the kids have never been happier .
I have just been told a rumour of another girl and that she slept with this girl it was in the same time frame as everything that happened above but he never told me this at the time as far as i knew was all messaging and indecent images etc . I have asked him he is denying it but i don’t believe him i have accepted in my head it did happen but i want him to be truthful . I know it sounds so stupid but we had done so well and our marriage was everything i always wanted it to be . Now this has come back from 3 years ago i don’t know how to feel or what to do .
i don’t want to end my marriage i love what we have other then this . ( i know that sounds so silly ) We have 2 x children 1 who is very autistic and would not cope with his dad moving out . But i don’t want this to be like this forever .
I can’t help thinking i sound so stupid for saying i want to stay but i also love my life our families i just don’t have the answers
5 comments posted: Monday, April 8th, 2024
