Husband cheating with friend’s widow
My husband and I have always been very close with another couple. In Feb, our friend (the male half of the couple) died by suicide and my husband I did everything we could to support the widow (who is also a close friend). After a few months, they began having an affair and I found out by accident in July. I have done everything in my power to stop them from doing this but they insist they are in love and refuse to address any of the red flags surrounding their relationship. Now my husband is saying he does not want to work on our marriage at all and only wants to be with her. I don’t know what to do.
19 comments posted: Wednesday, September 25th, 2024
Trauma Bonding
My husband & I have always been best friends with another couple in our small community. In Feb, our friend shockingly killed himself and my husband and I devoted as much time to his widow as we could (she was also a close friend). By May, my husband was having an affair with her & I found out by accident in July. This has been an absolute nightmare. What do I do?
2 comments posted: Monday, September 23rd, 2024