How to cope and come to a decision
I recently found out my partner of 10 years, husband of 6 months has been having an affair with a woman at work.
The affair really began two months before we got married, and then continued straight after for another four months. Mainly daily messaging and a couple of drunken kisses.
It only stopped once the other partner found out, 2 months before I found out. And even then communication had not stopped completely.
Since me finding out, he has told me how he wants to make things work with me, loves me deeply and that all she was was a distraction, meant nothing and he got nothing from the affair.
I guess my question is what do I do now? I turn 30 in a few months, we don’t have children. Do I need to leave? How do I move past this if not?
Literally any advice would help. Thank you
10 comments posted: Tuesday, May 27th, 2025
