mom_of_twins ( member #25084)		posted at 8:22 PM on Friday, September 11th, 2009	
			 
	thanks! I was looking for it and couldn't find it. 
 
			 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 4:20 AM on Sunday, September 13th, 2009	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 		 			
				    				toby ( member #10337)		posted at 6:35 PM on Monday, September 14th, 2009	
		 			
				    				nooneeverthought ( member #20157)		posted at 12:08 AM on Sunday, September 20th, 2009	
				it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you		
	 	 			
				    				nooneeverthought ( member #20157)		posted at 11:05 PM on Sunday, September 20th, 2009	
				it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you		
	 	 			
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 4:05 PM on Saturday, September 26th, 2009	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				punky ( member #12233)		posted at 4:05 PM on Saturday, September 26th, 2009	
			 
	The best JFO post ever. 
 
 
			 			13 years later...finally healed.  Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.  		
	 	 			
				    				toby ( member #10337)		posted at 8:32 PM on Wednesday, September 30th, 2009	
		 			
				    				nooneeverthought ( member #20157)		posted at 1:12 AM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009	
				it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, October 8th, 2009	
			 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, October 21st, 2009	
			 
	bump.....for the new folks!!! 
 
 
	bufffalo 
 
			 		 			
				    				neverendinghurt ( member #15859)		posted at 9:13 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2009	
				The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it. 
James M. Barrie 
		
	 	 			
				    				SourCherryDrops ( member #25883)		posted at 9:38 PM on Monday, November 2nd, 2009	
				Me BS 37, Her STBX 34, 1*ONS, 1*EA 1*PA/EA, 2*PA
Heading for D after 9 mths of R		
	 	 			
				    				quedagh ( member #24195)		posted at 5:48 AM on Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009	
				It may not define you but it sure as hell will affect how you think for the rest of your life. 
 
		
	 	 			
				    				lostsuol ( member #13706)		posted at 6:05 PM on Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009	
			 			
				    				lyndee ( member #22802)		posted at 4:52 PM on Sunday, November 15th, 2009	
				Me (BS) 
Him (WS) 
Reconciling		
	 	 			
				    				lookslikeaduck ( member #12103)		posted at 1:56 PM on Thursday, November 26th, 2009	
				BS oct 2009 ..... never make someone your priority if they only make you a option  		
	 	 			
				    				lookslikeaduck ( member #12103)		posted at 1:12 AM on Monday, November 30th, 2009	
			 
	bumping again so we keep it up front for new folks 
 
			 			BS oct 2009 ..... never make someone your priority if they only make you a option  		
	 	 			
				    				lookslikeaduck ( member #12103)		posted at 8:16 AM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2009	
				BS oct 2009 ..... never make someone your priority if they only make you a option  		
	 	 			
				    				SuspiciousWife ( member #18108)		posted at 3:31 AM on Tuesday, December 8th, 2009	
				Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session