bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 3:47 PM on Friday, November 11th, 2011	
			 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 12:14 AM on Saturday, November 19th, 2011	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				unarmbears ( member #7480)		posted at 2:39 AM on Friday, November 25th, 2011	
				FBS-Me, 67              
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie		
	 	 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 10:23 PM on Tuesday, November 29th, 2011	
		 			
				    				Lost and Betraye ( member #33988)		posted at 4:43 PM on Wednesday, November 30th, 2011	
				Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post"  L Thomas Holdcroft		
	 	 			
				    				cdnmommy ( member #30182)		posted at 8:03 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2011	
			 
	Bump again for struggling_male. 
 
			 			Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 7:01 AM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011	
			 			
				    				Lost and Betraye ( member #33988)		posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011	
				Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post"  L Thomas Holdcroft		
	 	 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 12:09 AM on Saturday, December 10th, 2011	
		 			
				    				emptyheart ( member #18873)		posted at 4:25 PM on Sunday, December 11th, 2011	
				Me - BW, Him - WH
2 great kids that are my reason for living.
1st D-Day - March 28, 2008
False R for a year
2nd D-Day - April 11,  2009		
	 	 			
				    				sudra ( member #30143)		posted at 4:04 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2011	
				Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R		
	 	 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 6:39 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2011	
		 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 6:13 AM on Friday, December 16th, 2011	
			 			
				    				unarmbears ( member #7480)		posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, December 18th, 2011	
				FBS-Me, 67              
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie		
	 	 			
				    				Lost and Betraye ( member #33988)		posted at 4:41 AM on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011	
				Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post"  L Thomas Holdcroft		
	 	 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 1:45 AM on Friday, December 23rd, 2011	
		 			
				    				unarmbears ( member #7480)		posted at 1:06 AM on Sunday, January 1st, 2012	
			 
	bump 
 
 
	Happy New Year! 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			FBS-Me, 67              
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 5:13 AM on Wednesday, January 4th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 3:21 AM on Friday, January 6th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 12:05 AM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces