Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 8:55 PM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				Steppinglightly ( new member #36432)		posted at 5:47 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012	
				For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.		
	 	 			
				    				deeplyblue ( new member #36897)		posted at 8:40 AM on Monday, September 24th, 2012	
				BS(me):37
WSH: 34
OW: 23
married for 2 1/2 yrs
together for 4 yrs
children : 2 
DD 27/7/2012
Status: He wants R, I want S/D.
		
	 	 			
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 9:33 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 2:14 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, October 9th, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 6:18 AM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:07 PM on Monday, October 22nd, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 8:40 AM on Monday, October 29th, 2012	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				UKgirl ( member #17062)		posted at 12:14 PM on Thursday, November 8th, 2012	
			 
	Fresh bump  
 
 
			 			Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee   Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old.  4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 1:48 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012	
			 			
				    				5454real ( member #37455)		posted at 12:26 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012	
				BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1  5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs 
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone." 
― Sophocle		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 4:54 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				cass ( member #24261)		posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, November 26th, 2012	
				DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:31 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				jjct ( member #17484)		posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012	
		 			
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 5:22 AM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			
				    				SerJR ( member #14993)		posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, December 24th, 2012	
				Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, December 24th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 1:00 AM on Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."