leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:11 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 1:16 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 2:57 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2024
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:23 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:19 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:19 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 3:49 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2025
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 8:53 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2025
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 10:44 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Bluefairy ( new member #85471) posted at 10:54 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2025
Excellent post thank you xx
Trying to reconcile- early days -Me - 35 WH- 40 Married 2016
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 12:50 AM on Monday, March 3rd, 2025
You are very welcomed. Been a long time since I have been on here or posted. You can get through this. It’s a lot of work and never easy. But you can do it.
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:37 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:43 PM on Sunday, April 13th, 2025
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:56 AM on Thursday, May 29th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 11:14 PM on Friday, July 18th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 6:34 PM on Friday, September 12th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:19 PM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
