annb ( member #22386)		posted at 4:38 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013	
		 			
				    				AFrayedKnot ( member #36622)		posted at 1:06 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013	
				BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:37 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				jjct ( member #17484)		posted at 12:33 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013	
		 			
				    				Jennifer99 ( member #39551)		posted at 4:51 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013	
			 
	I wish there was a way to bookmark sites WITHIN SI so that I could save this one without having it on a computer anywhere. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Lyonesse ( member #32943)		posted at 5:06 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013	
			 
	I don't know of a way to bookmark threads internally, but you do have a private journal function. Maybe you could keep a list of useful threads there for your reference? 
 
			 		 			
				    				Jennifer99 ( member #39551)		posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013	
			 
	Check that out! Didn't see that before. Thank you. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Lyonesse ( member #32943)		posted at 5:29 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013	
			 
	You're welcome. 
 
 
			 		 			
				    				Jennifer99 ( member #39551)		posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013	
			 
	I want to print this for my purse. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 3:19 PM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 2:49 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 8:02 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 8:02 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				AFrayedKnot ( member #36622)		posted at 2:14 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013	
				BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"		
	 	 			
				    				AFrayedKnot ( member #36622)		posted at 3:52 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013	
				BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"		
	 	 			
				    				Thiscantbhapning ( new member #39601)		posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013	
				BS (Me)-48
WH-49
COW-28
PA-5 1/2 months
D-Day 5-8-11 (Happy Mother's Day to me)
Married 26 years
DS-24
DD-22
Trying to R
"Maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up."		
	 	 			
				    				Broken6 ( member #40347)		posted at 4:02 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013	
			 
	So glad I found this to tonight.  This is exactly the state we are in right now.  He says he wants to move forward and wonders why I keep bringing A up.  I am still searching for answers and he gives me same pat answer 'I don't know'.  Anyway, this is helpful and I think I will print and show it to him. Bump it to top so I hope it will help someone else too.  Thank you. 
 
			 			The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it. 		
	 	 			
				    				jjct ( member #17484)		posted at 7:17 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013	
		 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 12:10 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013	
		 			
				    				ladies_first ( member #24643)		posted at 12:24 AM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013	
				"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell 
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway