sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, June 20th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:53 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 5:29 PM on Thursday, January 5th, 2023	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:26 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, August 29th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:50 PM on Wednesday, November 8th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 12:47 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 3:16 PM on Monday, March 4th, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 6:11 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				Sunnycott ( new member #84714)		posted at 7:58 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024	
			 
	Great pis..sadly my WH has done none/all..rug sweeping ..how long do you give them? To pull their head out of their backside? ? I'm done as the BS 
 
			 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 1:55 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024	
			 
	
Great pis..sadly my WH has done none/all..rug sweeping ..how long do you give them? To pull their head out of their backside? ? I'm done as the BS
That is dependent upon you and your situation. Some people give very little time and others can waffle back and forth for some time. 
 
			 			BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 10:21 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:43 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2024	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 3:37 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 4:00 AM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 9:10 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 1:15 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024	
				BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21