Topic is Sleeping.
Ideservethis (original poster new member #59216) posted at 10:08 PM on Monday, February 19th, 2018
by Megan Divine. Just started this book and it seems pretty good. Gives you permission to feel the way you feel and the stages of the 'grieving' model is broken. Anyone read it?
Me (WS), Her (BS) - mid 40s
2 DD's
Married 24
DDAY - April 17
3 months of failed R, divorced
Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 11:33 PM on Monday, March 12th, 2018
I didn't read that one, but I listened to an audiobook called "It's OK Not to Be OK" which was so helpful. I think we're trained to be so independent and stoic that, when our lives fall apart, we need someone to tell us that it's ok to feel like shit all the time and not be able to cope with it all.
Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)
Topic is Sleeping.