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 CharliB (original poster member #59007) posted at 4:19 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Was just married this past wkend. With Covid, we were only allowed to have a max of 5 people. The rest watched via zoom. We moved up our wedding date from July because we were living in different cities and social distancing was hard and difficult to isolate alone. We have had to postpone our honeymoon indefinitely unless we choose to honeymoon here, close by. We are both much happier being together.

We will celebrate with friends and family when the covid restrictions are lifted.

It is indeed a new beginning and I am looking forward to the rest of my life.

The truth doesn't cost you anything but a lie could cost you everything

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:48 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations and best wishes!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 4:50 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations!!!

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 4:57 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

That's wonderful!!

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 5:01 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations!

The only person you can change is yourself.

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 5:16 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Wishing you both all the best!

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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hcsv ( member #51813) posted at 6:21 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations!!!!

I hope you know by posting this you give so many of us hope.

After 40 years, ex turned into someone I didnt know and couldnt trust anymore. Divorced. 1/17

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fooled13years ( member #49028) posted at 7:41 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations! You will be able to celebrate your new marriage every day for the rest of your lives.

I removed myself from infidelity and am happy again.

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 7:50 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congrats!!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 8:21 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Yay!! Congratulations and best wishes for many happy years!!

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 8:27 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congrats!

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 9059   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 9:36 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 11:21 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020

Congratulations! So glad you are together now.

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:43 AM on Saturday, May 9th, 2020

Congratulations!!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 6208   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 5:39 PM on Saturday, May 9th, 2020

Congratulations!

Happy events are a wonderful bright spot!

Standing tall

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 3:51 AM on Friday, June 5th, 2020

So happy for you!!

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 2:52 PM on Friday, June 5th, 2020

Congratulations! :D This is a beautiful new beginning

Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years

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josiep ( member #58593) posted at 12:41 AM on Saturday, June 6th, 2020

Big congratulations to my fellow member of the Class of May, 2017. You deserve so much happiness, I’m glad it found you!

BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017

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SadLibrarian ( new member #71928) posted at 2:27 AM on Sunday, June 7th, 2020

That's wonderful. So much happiness for you!

D-day October 5th 2019

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 11:06 PM on Friday, June 12th, 2020

Congrats!!

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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