Topic is Sleeping.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 12:48 AM on Tuesday, December 1st, 2020
If it says Keller, it made it. We used to be Keller then merged with Fort Worth. The two names are still interchangeable for my zip code. I’ll make sure next year to make a note of that.
There is still time to get your cards to us!!! Please try to get them to me by the end of the week. I really hate for those people that made all of their cards to miss out on the receiving end.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 3:52 PM on Tuesday, December 1st, 2020
I sent it from one town over (I was at a PO in Grapevine) but did it on the self-service machine. The machine did NOT like Ste 114 (finally just put in 114 and it accepted it). I had to write in the PO Box myself. :) Tracking says it got there, so hopefully it went to the right spot! Thanks again for all of the coordination WOE!
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:02 PM on Tuesday, December 1st, 2020
I’ll have to try to remember to talk to them about the address next year and let them know there have been struggles.
My apologies guys. It’s a small mom and pop shop. Sweet couple.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 12:10 AM on Wednesday, December 2nd, 2020
My little local PO had no address issues, I guess, since the Postmaster didn't mention anything that was in question. But I do remember there was some issue last year like this. Last year I sent from a larger PO location.
Thank you, WOES, for giving more time so more participants can get their cards in. You are absolutely the BEST! Thank you again for taking this on without helper Elves and a party to make it fun.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
maise ( member #69516) posted at 9:16 PM on Wednesday, December 2nd, 2020
**added note for peace of mind**
My envelopes were sealed with water placed on a Q-tip, not saliva! 🙂
[This message edited by maise at 3:17 PM, December 2nd (Wednesday)]
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
Outoflove2020 ( member #72682) posted at 12:13 AM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2020
I am so so sorry. I totally forgot about this. I have been staying away from the site for the last few weeks as I’ve been dealing with some stuff and being on here was extremely triggering for me. Logged in for the first time in a while and am mortified that I forgot about this.
I’m so sorry to everyone who is participating and also to the mods for shirking on my commitment.
[This message edited by Outoflove2020 at 6:13 PM, December 2nd, 2020 (Wednesday)]
DDay 1/15/2020.
Separated 3/1/2020
Still healing but in a better place
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 12:52 PM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2020
I hope mine made it. The post office computer wasn't happy with the address.
I've had a very shitty couple of days. Could really use some cheer right now.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 10:50 PM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2020
You’re good Dragn! 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:40 PM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2020
Thank you!!! That put a smile on my face after days of crying.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 1:57 PM on Monday, December 7th, 2020
For Holiday Card accompaniment, I highly recommend looking up "Glitter, Dammit" by Marian Call 
BS - over 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:12 PM on Wednesday, December 9th, 2020
I just want to update all of you on the cards.
We normally would have had them sorted and labeled this past weekend. Unfortunately, we were not able to get them finished. I will have them done this weekend though! Hoping to be able to send some pics for y’all.
I just didn’t want you waiting for them and hoping to see them sometime this weekend. It’s getting done, I promise...just a bit behind schedule.
I appreciate your patience. 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 11:26 PM on Wednesday, December 9th, 2020
Sorry there wasn't an Elf party to get it done. Another reason 2020 sucks. Hard to do it all without help. Just adds a few more days of anticipation.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Followtheriver ( member #58858) posted at 4:56 AM on Friday, December 11th, 2020
WOES,
It's ok, I was so late getting my cards out that the glitter fairy didn't have time to make them all sparkly this year. Then I had to send them overnight mail which it may just have been cheaper to fly them down on spirit myself instead. Lol.
HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 2:52 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
First sort of the cards last night.
Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.
HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 2:54 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.
HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 2:58 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
Even though it was just the two of us this year WOES kept at least one tradition alive and well:
Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.
FusedGlass ( new member #71967) posted at 3:01 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
For Holiday Card accompaniment, I highly recommend looking up "Glitter, Dammit" by Marian Call
ChewedMeUp, thanks for the song suggestion! I’ve been enjoying listening to it, in anticipation of the cards and also because it feels about perfect for Christmas 2020.
Me: BW, M 20+ years, separated in 2019, happily divorced since 2021!
XWH: living with AP
FusedGlass ( new member #71967) posted at 3:06 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
WOES and HT, thanks for the pictures and for all your work on this! So glad you were able to keep at least one tradition going this year!
Me: BW, M 20+ years, separated in 2019, happily divorced since 2021!
XWH: living with AP
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 3:13 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
I miss my fellow elves. Tequila isn't the same without you guys.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 3:25 PM on Sunday, December 13th, 2020
lieshurt, my sentiments exactly!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Topic is Sleeping.
