Topic is Sleeping.
MyAndI (original poster member #75422) posted at 3:24 PM on Thursday, May 13th, 2021
I was copied in on an email from Andi to OW this morning, asking her to stay out of our lives. Andi told her there were still things to be ironed out between us and to please give us the chance to sink or swim on our own.
OW didn't respond--that I know of.
Andi wasn't visceral, rude or hurtful; she was quite dignified and calm actually; caught me completely by surprise.
I did find it strange that Andi put her foot down now with things so up in the air -- and so close to what looks like the end. But I'm glad she stuck up for herself/us.
I don't know if this moves the needle much in my desire to be left alone for awhile; I'm going to stick to NC like the IC recommended.
I really didn't need this on my mind today. I'm trying to get a story filed and my pimply-faced editor is pestering me.
Thanks to all for the input on my previous thread.
[This message edited by MyAndI at 9:27 AM, May 13th (Thursday)]
I failed at R
Survived Infidelity as a BH, WW had a six-month EA/PA, then I had an affair of my own many years later that lasted three-years, never thought I'd ever cheat.
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 3:36 PM on Thursday, May 13th, 2021
It sounds like your wife showed some class.
Let's see if OW does.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 4:43 PM on Thursday, May 13th, 2021
I'm glad she's sticking up for herself.
Keep NC. Don't respond. I'm sure she copied you because she wanted you to be informed of the action she took. No need to respond/engage.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
Topic is Sleeping.
