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Love Dare Progress - Am I doing it wrong?

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 wantstorepair (original poster member #32598) posted at 9:03 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022

In the love dare, I have been not moving past a day until I can actually accomplish the task given on that day. If I fail I stay on that day, If I take too long to get it done, I start back at the beginning. Is that right? or am I floundering still like I have been for years on this? Thanks!

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 9:39 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022

You're wife wants a divorce,and wants you to move out of the house. She's done. Your "floundering" has caused her continued pain. What you are doing now is selfish.

Please do as she has asked. That's what she needs from you.

But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..

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DoinBettr ( member #71209) posted at 10:29 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022

This sounds like your process and you are being unwilling to adjust to her process.
Your BW wants certain actions and you are justifying why you don't do those unless they are perfect.
Do you do this for things you enjoy or just things you feel obligated to complete?
She could see this as procrastinating if you only do this for her and then demand speed for actions you want.

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Topic is Sleeping.
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