Topic is Sleeping.
HarryD ( member #72423) posted at 4:07 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2022
Normal marriages and family are hard to keep together. You really think down the road the threesome is really going to work. He going to do something to upset the couple and he ids going to be on the outs
Midi (original poster new member #80743) posted at 7:47 PM on Thursday, September 29th, 2022
HarryD ....the road ahead for him is very unsure . But it's a road he will go down and obviously hope for the best . I think they'll please him as much as they can because they like his hand-outs ! They are the winners in all this . They've had my H child , he pays , he treats them to what ever they need and they get to choose as and when it suits them for him to visit . He's lost me in all of this ( think he thought he wouldn't ) but I value myself so much more than he obviously did . Let the healing and moving on begin ....馃檪
ChamomileTea ( Moderator #53574) posted at 12:04 AM on Friday, September 30th, 2022
I'm glad you're getting some support in therapy. I was really resistant to going and suffered a lot more than I needed to. It's so important to have IRL resources. Make sure you're getting out with friends and family. There's something about betrayal which makes us trend toward self-isolation, so you'll want to avoid that if possible.
((hugs))
BW: 2004(online EAs), 2014 (multiple PAs)
Married 40 years; in R with fWH for 8
Topic is Sleeping.
