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Lymph nodes & job loss all in same day

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 strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 3:19 PM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023

Worried and sad. I have not been to this site I in years. Yesterday my husband was fired from his job for workplace horseplay a bad joke with a banana during lunch break ( very embarrassing I work at the same factory) then hour later my dr orders scans for swollen lymph nodes as I’ve been complaining of odd breast sensitivity. Please 🙏🏻for me to be strong as I have to hold it together financially , physically and mentally for myself and children.

Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 7:31 PM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023

Praying for good results on your scans and sending you strength.

My H lost his job last year and it was so stressful. It all worked out in the end and we are now both much happier but we had a rough few months. I hope your H finds another job soon!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:08 PM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023

Sending mojo your way.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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 strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 10:25 PM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023

Thank you .. I hope it works out for myself & my husband.

Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 10:26 PM on Tuesday, March 28th, 2023

Sending good mojo —- that’s a lot to deal with.
Hope it all works out for you.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:21 AM on Thursday, March 30th, 2023

You can ask for help from your friends. They will be glad to help you out. Lean in to your support network.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 2:57 PM on Friday, March 31st, 2023

Sending prayers !

"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.

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Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 3:51 AM on Saturday, April 1st, 2023

I'm keeping you in my prayers. (((((strawblond30)))))

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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 1:39 PM on Saturday, April 1st, 2023

Prayers for you during all of this.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 11:46 AM on Monday, April 3rd, 2023

Sending prayers your way!

BS Fwh

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Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 10:39 PM on Monday, April 3rd, 2023

Sending very positive energy your way !!

"Because I deserve better"

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 strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 9:44 PM on Tuesday, April 4th, 2023

Thank you everyone. They had to reschedule ultrasound & mammogram for April 21st. Husband was officially fired. He filed a grievance with the company for false accusations. Stress is killing me . I can’t stop thinking about it almost every hour of the day.

Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:08 AM on Wednesday, April 5th, 2023

I'm so sorry strawblond. Waiting to have tests done is so hard.

I hope your H can get his job back. Does he have a union to represent him?

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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josiep ( member #58593) posted at 5:18 PM on Wednesday, April 5th, 2023

You will hold it together and you will get through this. You see, as soon as you found out, you reached out to your support system and that's a sign that you know how to get through life's tough stuff and you aren't afraid to do what you need to do. But do keep reaching out - you have a lot of old friends here and a lot of new ones you haven't met yet but who are in your corner nonetheless.

I'm definitely hoping and praying H's job situation gets resolved quickly but I'm even more hoping and praying that your symptoms are just some oddball thing that will be resolved easily.

BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017

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