This may sound crazy but I've been thinking about it for few days now.
I have the urge to contact the OBS again just to talk about our WSes affair.
Initially (Sep 2023), when I informed him about the affair and gave all the information I had, he mentioned that he wanted to speak to me. He did try to call but couldn't answer at that time because I was attending my 8 month old baby (not really the right time to talk about my WS's affair when I have a fussy/cranky newborn in the background).
I tried to call him back few hours later but he did not pick up as I know for sure he is at work at that time.
I was planning to call him few days/weeks after but to be honest, I am not at my best (mentally and emotionally) during those months as it has been only 2 months post Dday.
I tried to check if he did not block me yet from the FB msgr (only way of communicating) and he did not. I still have him on my list.
What the purpose of it now to contact him?
I feel like we really do need to talk about the details of our WSes as both of our WSes are minimizing and TT their affair. A closure if anything maybe? I dont know.
What do you guys think?
Any thoughts?
Am I crazy to even think about this?
Is it too late already and it doesnt make any sense anymore as it is 4 months post Dday already?
