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 Jeaniegirl (original poster member #6370) posted at 5:54 PM on Saturday, December 30th, 2023

To all the wonderful people in this forum -


May we all be much healthier in this new year.

May NONE of us lose any more precious fur babies in 2024.

"Because I deserve better"

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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 7:05 PM on Saturday, December 30th, 2023

🥂🥂🥂

Happy New Year to everyone!

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 7:53 PM on Saturday, December 30th, 2023

Happy New Year!!!

"May NONE of us lose any more precious fur babies in 2024"

Yes!!

Stay safe everyone.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:57 AM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023

May we all have a happy healthier new year with no trauma, drama or pain.
May our families (including the 4 legged furry kind) be healthy and free of disease or accidents.

HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIENDS!!!!

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:26 AM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023

Happy New Year (happy to report that my cat is doing better and I think we are all good now. Whew!)
Here’s to all of us having a great 2024. We deserve it!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 2:22 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023

Count me in with these well wishes for 2024!

Prayers for less pain and sadness, and more opportunities for positivity, good health and JOY!


Not for nothin’…did you know that today’s date is"1-2-3-1-2-3"? >12-31-23<

I’m nothing if not full of useless information! 😂

Love you guys 😘

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 9:05 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023

Happy New Year to my SI family.

May 2024 bring us all good health and happiness. ❤️

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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 Jeaniegirl (original poster member #6370) posted at 9:48 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023

I will be celebrating at home. A small court case victory is cause for my celebration. smile I don't get out on NY's eve for a long time now. Too many crazy drunks out there - and non-drunk mean people. Safer at home with my little doggies, shielding them from their fear of fireworks. I'm making myself a sirloin steak (rarely eat meat but occasionally a steak or burger), a baked potato and a great salad. And of course my ever-present Dr. Pepper. smile I had invites but politely declined.

"Because I deserve better"

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 11:12 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023

Happy New Year!!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:43 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Jeanie I hope you enjoy your steak. We had my.sin and family.last night with steaks lobster and crab legs. My grandson is a joy and a blessing abd lov every exhausting minute with him..
Enjoy tonight we will most likely make it to 9pm tonight. But that is no different from normal for us.
Happy New Year

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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 Jeaniegirl (original poster member #6370) posted at 1:42 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

LOL at Tush -- making it to 9pm. laugh I'm a night owl, usually working very late and the only way I will know it's midnight is the red-neck fire works going off about 3/4th mile from me. smile

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 7:59 AM, Monday, January 1st]

"Because I deserve better"

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Vocalion ( member #82921) posted at 2:04 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Wishing everyone a truly Happy New Year!

When she says you're the only one she'll ever love, and you find out, that you're not the one she's thinking of,That's when you're learning the game.Charles Hardin ( Buddy) Holly...December 1958

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 2:08 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Making it to midnight won't be difficult. Every night since the kids have been out of school everyone except dd has been up past midnight.

Typically I can't sleep.

Today though, I'm tired and sore. Got conked on the head yesterday and it's really hurting today.

Kids and I did up a big spread of finger foods, veggies, fruit. Oh my I'm stuffed lol.

While we do a Pirates of the Caribbean marathon we are taking turns playing Battle Ship. Dd and Big D are playing now.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 4:54 AM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Late to the Party but wouldn't want to ring in the New Year without you all!!! 7 minutes and counting.......
Let's pray we all have a better year in 2024 and our fur kiddos, too!!!

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Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 1:20 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Wishing all my SI family a Happy New Year! May 2024 be full of joy!

Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:15 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

I'll join - Happy New Year to all! I, too, am hoping we all have a good 2024.

We used to get together with friends on NYE. Now ... one has died, 1 has moved away. Lost touch with a couple. A couple are very sick. A couple are recovering from Covid. None of us have much energy past 9:30. Starting last year, those who are standing meet for brunch on New Year's day.

NYE TV sucks; it used to be great - Jack Benny in The Horn Blows at Midnight and other cinema gems. I still remember Woody Allen on Jack Paar doing his moose hunting bit as if it were a true hunting story. Guy Lombardo and his band at some hotel. Staying up past midnight as a kid while my parents were out. Last night, nothing worth watching but the Packers grinding the Vikings into the dust. smile

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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maise ( member #69516) posted at 6:50 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Happy new year!!! 🥳

BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced

"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

— Rumi

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JasonCh ( member #80102) posted at 10:40 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Happy New Year!

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Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 11:07 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2024

Slight t/j re: Guy Lombardo's dance band, NYE on TV that Sisoon remembers.

I was just a kid when my folks tuned into it every NYE, too! My Dad had been an aviator at the end of WWII, and my Mom had played and sung with a big swing band during the late 1940's in Milwaukee, so they always liked to watch it. The cameraman always panned the ballroom full of dancers and would zoom in on couples dancing. Often I saw sad or wistful looks upon the dancers' faces - which just puzzled me. In fact, yesterday I recalled how once I asked my Mother why so many of them were seemingly sad, at a big fancy party? It made me feel bad for them, even as a kid.

Now that I'm old, I think I understand better why that might have been. Funny you should mention that show! Sisoon, do you remember this?

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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 3:08 AM on Tuesday, January 2nd, 2024

Last night, nothing worth watching but the Packers grinding the Vikings into the dust.


And what a fine dust it was!!

And actually what was a LOT of fun, was watching Anderson Cooper and Andy Cohen get sloshed on CNN at Times Square. I'm so glad they let them have their liquor back on TV. If you haven't seen any clips, look for the one where they video chat with John Mayer, who's in Japan at a cat bar (yup, no typo there). I thought they were going to have to resuscitate Anderson from laughing so hard. Now, I'm not really a drinker (I have maybe six glasses of wine a year), and I'm not fond of watching idiots on New Year's Eve (or Fourth of July), but watching these two has become tradition on NYE.

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

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