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Divorce/Separation :
Valentines Day

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 MySonshine (original poster member #32252) posted at 11:32 PM on Friday, February 9th, 2024

How do you handle Valentine’s Day? I have a feeling if I don’t get him something he will try and use it against me with the kids. He is in complete denial of any wrongdoing on his part this time because it wasn’t physical and he’s doing lots of stuff for show. Posting on my Facebook how wonderful I am and how thankful he is to have me, but refusing to go to MC. Then turning around and says he’s the only one fighting to save the marriage. mad

BS-me 40
WH-41
Too many DDs to count.

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nomudnolotus ( member #59431) posted at 4:29 AM on Saturday, February 10th, 2024

Can you get something small and generic so that you don't have to worry about him making a big deal about it?

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:48 PM on Saturday, February 10th, 2024

Are you separated or in D? If so, then you don’t need to a damn thing.
(I ask since this is the S/D forum). Otherwise, something generic will work fine.
A card (hard to find one that say "meh", though) and a box of inexpensive chocolates.

Sorry - holidays like this get easier with time.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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