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Finding out he cheated on me

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 hurtwidow (original poster new member #84786) posted at 8:36 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2024

Finding out my husband cheated on me during our marriage hit me hard.I cried too.He passed away in January and kept it a secret now in the grave.I was cleaning his side of the closet out last weekend and found a shoe box full of letters inside of it.The letters were from other women that he cheated on me with.I was emotional and cried at first.I almost puked reading some of them,mentioned gross acts I will not mention.It hit me hard,good friends of mine have been there for support.These letters,I ended up burning them including the shoe box

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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 11:31 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2024

I am so sorry. Please take care of YOU! Also, get STD testing just in case. It’s a lot to think about but that is how you take care of you. Drink water, eat, exercise, and lean on us.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

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 hurtwidow (original poster new member #84786) posted at 12:43 AM on Saturday, April 27th, 2024

Been tested,negative.I will never find out why he did it.I have not started dating yet since his death,not ready for this.

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Justsomeguy ( member #65583) posted at 1:28 AM on Saturday, April 27th, 2024

I'm sorry you are in this place. Holding space with you.

I'm an oulier in my positions.

Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.

Divorced

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 1:47 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2024

Duplicate thread. Please provide support to this member in JFO.

If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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