Lisanne1996 (original poster new member #69902) posted at 1:48 PM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
Wh told me 3 months ago he wants a divorce- he is still on my couch! I think mostly do to finances..
I was away last weekend and found a receipt that shows he was with the other woman last weekend.. I confronted him - packed him a bag and told him I want him to go live with her ..I insisted that I would like to drop him off at her house and she could have him…
I go out last night and when I come home- he has done the litter , cleaned the house and is doing dishes.. He hasn’t done dishes in 30 years!
He wants me to go with to the city with him and the kids today- asked me again last night.. I politely told him No..
Any thoughts ?
Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 1:54 PM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
First thought was maybe a lawyer told him what he could face if he moves out? Then I thought "What's wrong with the OW?" Don't let it matter to you.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 5:35 PM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
1. The OW doesn’t want him living with her.
2. I agree with the lawyer advice oosr, but that dies t explain the household chores.
3. He’s NOW AFRAID of leaving — giving you the upper hand.
4. He’s trying to get you to sweep this under the rug.
5. It’s an act. It will stop soon.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 6:19 PM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
He hasn’t done the dishes in 30 years!?
Why not?
