Topic is Sleeping.
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 7:47 PM on Thursday, October 8th, 2020
Oh my god, this is a brilliant idea. I love all things Christmas (I've already bought an advent calendar with chocolates and saved it for when december 1st hits).
Making Christmas cards and sending them to you? Oh my god, yessss.
Just making sure I understand how it works...
So I buy/make a bunch of cards, put the usernames on them, send them to MH/WOE/HT and I'll include the right amount of postage in that package and then you'll post it to the people that I've put on the cards?
*edit to clarify: I live in Europe so that's why I'm asking
[This message edited by Hedwig at 2:00 PM, October 8th (Thursday)]
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 2:52 AM on Friday, October 9th, 2020
Hedwig, yes that’s basically how it works. When the official list goes out we will also provide the address to send them to.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 11:01 AM on Friday, October 9th, 2020
Alright, Woe, thank you! Looking forward to it
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 2:16 AM on Tuesday, October 13th, 2020
Add me happily to the list. I’m in, despite the fact that I am still finding glitter in the bottom section of my freezer compartment underneath the bratwurst! I have a three year old grandson and a seven year old granddaughter with devious minds who will help me complete my cards this year. Remember, all that glitters is not gold, or bratwurst for that matter.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 7:59 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2020
If we go to the form and fill out our information, is that it? There is no “enter” button.
Technologically impaired here.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 8:50 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2020
You click on the "Save my information" button.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 8:58 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2020
Remember, all that glitters is not gold, or bratwurst for that matter.
This is very profound fareast. (Not to mention, I can probably find a way to apply it to infidelity somehow).
However, I refuse to take the bait about how glitter got in your freezer.
I'm so glad to see folks signing up...hopefully the count is getting up into some festive digits!
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 8:47 AM on Sunday, October 18th, 2020
I was in a store yesterday and they had all these amazing and cheap materials for crafts. Embossing seems to be very 'in' these days. I squealed like a little kid and started putting together cards in my head 
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 5:25 AM on Thursday, October 29th, 2020
Bumpity bump!
I've been helping my mom clean out her house in preparation for a move, and I discovered that she's a stamp hoarder. I am flush with postage. Any member who signs up for the exchange will be receiving a fat envelope from BraveSirRobin and TimeSpiral with a patchwork quilt's worth of stamps on it.
If anyone is reluctant to participate because of the cost of postage, don't let that stop you. Message me.
[This message edited by BraveSirRobin at 2:44 AM, October 29th (Thursday)]
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 12:01 PM on Saturday, October 31st, 2020
Last day to sign up 
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 5:57 PM on Saturday, October 31st, 2020
Better late than never...I'm in! 
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” - Steve Maraboli
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 1:27 AM on Sunday, November 1st, 2020
As much as I am saddened, can you please remove me. So much going on, I don’t feel I can fulfill my part. Thank you PP
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 2:11 AM on Sunday, November 1st, 2020
Leave it to me to be last minute! Glad to see both familiar names from previous years and new members ready to join in the fun!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 2:59 AM on Sunday, November 1st, 2020
Woot woot! A few more than last year...
And may the glitters be ever in your favor!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 7:26 AM on Monday, November 2nd, 2020
Where can I find the list with the participants?
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:57 AM on Monday, November 2nd, 2020
The list of names and address to send them to will be posted at a later date.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 9:29 PM on Tuesday, November 3rd, 2020
Thank you, WOE, I have to be a bit more patient
Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:11 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020
Is there a final count to number of participants?
I'm making cards this year and just want to be sure I'm on top of it all.
Thanks
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
MangledHeart ( Webmaster) posted at 4:14 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020
Thank you for signing up to participate! This year the total number of participants is 51. The Christmas Card Exchange information page has been updated to include the mailing address to send your cards. The deadline for your cards to arrive is Tuesday, December 1st, 2020. A list of participants & postage can be found here.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 5:05 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Topic is Sleeping.
