Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				HollyLou ( new member #41248)		posted at 2:12 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013	
				BW, 55
WH, 58
D-Day 10/30/13, 11/20/23
M:  27
2 DDs 25, 23
Status: ??		
	 	 			
				    				torn2bits ( member #28376)		posted at 3:14 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013	
				Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted		
	 	 			
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 6:32 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			
				    				purplejacket4 ( member #34262)		posted at 4:02 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013	
				Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish 
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 2:42 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 5:29 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:31 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 2:38 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 8:00 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 8:00 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				Lyonesse ( member #32943)		posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013	
			 			
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 12:15 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 3:40 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:53 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				nowiknow23 ( member #33226)		posted at 2:40 PM on Saturday, December 21st, 2013	
			 
	bump  
 
 
			 			You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane		
	 	 			
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 4:23 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 1:06 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				PRNDL ( member #41927)		posted at 12:55 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014	
			 
	Page one please!! Amazing! This can truly save someone from losing their minds. 
 
			 			BH: 36 (me)
WS: 31 / OM: 31
Son: 12
Affair: 1.5 year long 2012
ONS with stranger Feb 2013
D-day #1 March 2013
D-day #2 April 2013
D-day #3 Sept 2013
Affair continued. 
Limbo 7 months
Moved out - 180D - NC
Divorced
A over. Defogged. Trying R