OnlyLonely ( member #14326) posted at 7:19 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
this thread could really help some of our newer members, so I'm bumping.
Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married: 18 years
Status: In R
Feelforgotten ( member #32929) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
Thank you
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:19 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:10 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
PositivePrincess ( member #32743) posted at 7:07 PM on Friday, August 26th, 2011
Wow, this is amazing! So glad you guys bumped this! After reading about the toughest part of infidelity I feel like a warrior woman! 
dday - 5/15/2011
"When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something's suffered damage and has a history it becomes more more beautiful. ~Barbara Bloom
annb ( member #22386) posted at 4:33 AM on Sunday, September 4th, 2011
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:38 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2011
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:09 PM on Friday, September 9th, 2011
Bump
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
4myheart ( member #21015) posted at 9:11 PM on Monday, September 12th, 2011
Bump
(((((to all the newbies))))
"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry
bumbed ( member #31024) posted at 12:48 AM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.
25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, September 19th, 2011
Will-I-Ever-Know ( member #32703) posted at 6:10 AM on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011
Me BS: 26
Him FWH: 28
Together: 6 years
DDay #1 June 2010
Full blown 6 month long PA: OW was his 2nd Girlfriend.
Many DDays & TT for the rest of this year!
In R. :)
WARNING: I am long-winded. Sorry in advance. :)
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, October 12th, 2011
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 11:55 PM on Wednesday, October 12th, 2011
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 3:41 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 2:32 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2011
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
grownapair ( member #33622) posted at 10:26 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2011
Glad this was bumped as I needed a re-read to kick me in the backside. Again. Should just print it all out and put it somewhere for quick reference. :-)
BS - me, 40 WH - 42
Kids 8 and 10
Definitely done!
StrgrThanIThght ( member #33634) posted at 4:29 PM on Saturday, October 29th, 2011
Just found this. So much helpful information in one place. Thanks for compiling it.
Me - BW (40)
Him - FWH (43) (he has earned the "capital" F)
D-Day - Sept 2011
Us: Working concurrently on ourselves and R
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 1:04 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2011
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 8:10 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2011
