Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 12:02 AM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 9:15 AM on Friday, January 13th, 2012	
		 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 6:26 AM on Sunday, January 15th, 2012	
			 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 7:11 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				AttemptStrength ( member #27947)		posted at 6:05 AM on Monday, January 23rd, 2012	
				BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS 
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:31 PM on Tuesday, January 24th, 2012	
			 
	bump  
 
 
			 			BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				UKgirl ( member #17062)		posted at 8:20 AM on Tuesday, February 7th, 2012	
			 
	Bump  
 
 
			 			Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee   Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old.  4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom		
	 	 			
				    				UKgirl ( member #17062)		posted at 10:18 AM on Monday, February 13th, 2012	
			 
	Bumping again 
 
 
			 			Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee   Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old.  4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom		
	 	 			
				    				BrokenHeart2012 ( member #34776)		posted at 3:17 PM on Monday, February 13th, 2012	
			 
	Thrive Not Survive, I am looking for a post that I saw the other day.  It was one on regret/guilt vs. remorse.  It is in 2 columns.  I cannot seem to find it now.  I do not know if it is from SerJR or where I saw it at first.  I have been reading so much.  I know it was not on the Q&A or in the library anywhere.  Thank you for your assistance. 
 
			 			BS - 42
WS - 44
D-Day - 1/11/12 Via email		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2012	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 1:07 AM on Thursday, February 16th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, March 1st, 2012	
		 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 5:11 PM on Saturday, March 3rd, 2012	
			 			
				    				fourever ( member #30631)		posted at 2:02 PM on Monday, March 5th, 2012	
				In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.
Always, tell the other BS! Always! 
"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!  		
	 	 			
				    				Rain02 ( member #34238)		posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, March 5th, 2012	
			 
	Bump 
 
 
			 			Use the pain as a fuel,as a reminder of your strength.		
	 	 			
				    				AttemptStrength ( member #27947)		posted at 7:04 PM on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012	
				BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS 
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.		
	 	 			
				    				SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716)		posted at 3:38 AM on Friday, March 9th, 2012	
				My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 11:18 PM on Saturday, March 10th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 7:09 PM on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, March 27th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces