kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 8:26 PM on Sunday, April 13th, 2014	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			
				    				Steve55 ( member #41621)		posted at 7:16 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014	
			 
	Amazingly useful resources here.. 
 
 
	I think this is worth bumping. I hope that is ok with everyone. 
 
			 	 			
				    				jjct ( member #17484)		posted at 8:58 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014	
		 			
				    				Taitrig ( new member #43118)		posted at 1:16 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014	
			 
	Thank you ..this is very helpful.. 
 
			 	 			
				    				jjct ( member #17484)		posted at 8:42 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014	
		 			
				    				UKgirl ( member #17062)		posted at 6:33 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014	
			 
	Bump  
 
 
			 			Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee   Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old.  4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom		
	 	 			
				    				AFrayedKnot ( member #36622)		posted at 12:53 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014	
				BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"		
	 	 			
				    				norabird ( member #42092)		posted at 8:41 PM on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014	
			 			
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 10:58 PM on Friday, May 16th, 2014	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 12:36 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			
				    				StillLivin ( member #40229)		posted at 9:33 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014	
				"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014		
	 	 			
				    				mchercheur ( member #37735)		posted at 3:39 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014	
				Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:45 PM on Friday, May 30th, 2014	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Lyonesse ( member #32943)		posted at 7:52 AM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014	
			 			
				    				norabird ( member #42092)		posted at 4:26 PM on Thursday, June 5th, 2014	
			 			
				    				mchercheur ( member #37735)		posted at 11:46 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014	
				Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be		
	 	 			
				    				norabird ( member #42092)		posted at 4:08 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014	
			 			
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 8:33 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			
				    				brkn_heartd ( member #30396)		posted at 2:52 AM on Monday, July 14th, 2014	
				Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10