Getting to Happy ( member #35200)		posted at 11:20 PM on Sunday, November 24th, 2013	
			 
	bumped for Horsegirl and Ruby. 
 
 
	
 
 
 
	take care everyone. 
 
			 			WS him
BS me   DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 5:28 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013	
			 
	Bump for our Newbies today. 
 
			 			Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 11:39 PM on Monday, December 2nd, 2013	
		 			
				    				Jules1111 ( member #41463)		posted at 3:48 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013	
			 
	Read these and they really helped my mindset today. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:32 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 2:38 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				mchercheur ( member #37735)		posted at 8:09 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013	
				Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be		
	 	 			
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 7:33 PM on Sunday, December 8th, 2013	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 3:38 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:54 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				nowiknow23 ( member #33226)		posted at 2:40 PM on Saturday, December 21st, 2013	
			 
	bump  
 
 
			 			You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 1:07 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 8:14 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				cl131716 ( member #40699)		posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014	
				Me BS 33 Him WS 37
Together 6 years, married almost 4 years
D-day: 07/23/13 EA with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out about a past kiss
D-day: 05/30/16 Saw first text message from new COW
D-day: 09-08-16 Dr. Fone confirmed EA 
		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				Lola88 ( member #41540)		posted at 10:30 AM on Thursday, January 9th, 2014	
			 
	So useful, especially during night terrors x 
 
			 	 			
				    				ascian ( member #40304)		posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014	
				Me - BH 41
Her - FWW 38
D-Day: 8/13
Reconciled		
	 	 			
				    				Blobette ( member #36519)		posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014	
				BS (me): 51
WS: 52
Married: 27 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R		
	 	 			
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 11:23 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			
				    				brkn_heartd ( member #30396)		posted at 5:47 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014	
				Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10