Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 11:19 PM on Saturday, March 10th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				 lordhasaplan? (original poster  member #30079)		posted at 7:09 PM on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, March 27th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 3:31 AM on Saturday, March 31st, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				jo2love ( member #31528)		posted at 3:46 AM on Wednesday, April 4th, 2012	
		 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 3:55 AM on Monday, April 9th, 2012	
			 			
				    				SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716)		posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, April 10th, 2012	
				My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 2:16 PM on Sunday, April 15th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				WakingFromADream ( member #33934)		posted at 7:03 PM on Thursday, April 19th, 2012	
				Me(37) DS(9) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13
Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.		
	 	 			
				    				AttemptStrength ( member #27947)		posted at 2:36 PM on Friday, April 20th, 2012	
				BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS 
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 1:33 PM on Friday, April 27th, 2012	
			 			
				    				 lordhasaplan? (original poster  member #30079)		posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, April 30th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 9:02 PM on Thursday, May 10th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				 lordhasaplan? (original poster  member #30079)		posted at 2:39 PM on Thursday, May 24th, 2012	
			 
	Bump! 
 
 
			 			BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Lucy44 ( new member #34904)		posted at 7:55 PM on Thursday, May 24th, 2012	
			 
	Thank u o much for taking the time to write these words!!!! 
 
 
	It's perfect! :-) 
 
 
	Thank you! 
 
 
	I just need to listen to myself saying them out loud! :-) 
 
			 	 			
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 9:09 PM on Friday, June 8th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				 lordhasaplan? (original poster  member #30079)		posted at 2:50 PM on Thursday, June 14th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				 lordhasaplan? (original poster  member #30079)		posted at 4:06 PM on Tuesday, June 19th, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				 lordhasaplan? (original poster  member #30079)		posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				itsraining ( new member #35865)		posted at 8:16 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2012	
			 
	Thanks for this and for all those who "bump" great advice for those of us who are brand new and need this advice.