Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 8:33 PM on Monday, July 2nd, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 1:43 PM on Wednesday, July 4th, 2012
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 6:00 PM on Friday, July 6th, 2012
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 11:45 PM on Monday, July 16th, 2012
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
WarehouseGuy ( member #6037) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, July 17th, 2012
This needs to go in the healing library.
Great post!
WHG 
If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
pmal64 ( member #13551) posted at 4:29 AM on Wednesday, July 18th, 2012
.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-55
WH -60
"when they show you who they are, believe them"
hank9898 ( member #35405) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, July 24th, 2012
Me - BH (46)
Two great kids
Son (20) US Army
Daughter (18) College student
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Keepcalm ( member #36234) posted at 2:07 PM on Thursday, August 2nd, 2012
BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 12:47 PM on Thursday, August 9th, 2012
Bump
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 4:29 PM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 12:42 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 1:59 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012
I SO needed this information, especially today.
Thank you...
BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:36 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 2:14 PM on Tuesday, September 4th, 2012
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
sickrn ( member #36398) posted at 4:53 PM on Tuesday, September 4th, 2012
No matter how many times I read this, I get something new out of it each time. Thanks for bumping and the post...I seem to need constant reminders to do anything good for me.... 
M=23 yrs
DD-22
BW=46
WH=46
DDAY 6/12
In R....trust but verify!
The truth can't hurt you, it's just like the dark.
It scares you witless,
But in time you see things clear and stark - Elvis
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 1:04 AM on Thursday, September 6th, 2012
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 8:55 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 4:09 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 3:38 PM on Friday, September 14th, 2012
Bump
BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
