Topic is Sleeping.
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 10:43 AM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
NTV
I’m so very sorry for your loss.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 6:17 PM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
Mari104 ( member #63422) posted at 6:38 PM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
NTV,
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and your SI family is here for you. Sending you healing and positive vibes.
SadieMae ( member #42986) posted at 6:42 PM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
I am so sorry to read this. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. I cannot imagine.
Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
My sincere condolences for your loss, NTV.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 9:00 PM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
So sorry NTV. 
Failure is success if we learn from it.
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 12:35 AM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2022
I'm so sorry (((NTV))) may peace be with you.
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
BrokenheartedUK ( member #43520) posted at 3:00 AM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2022
Oh NTV. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Me: BS
He cheated and then lied. Apparently cheaters lie. Huh. 13 months of false R. Divorced! 8/16 3 teenage kids
"The barn's burnt down
Now
I can see the moon"
-Mizuta Masahide
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 5:30 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2022
Oh NTV. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Your words have brought both wisdom and a smile to so many here, including myself. Sending prayers of comfort for you and your children.
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 6:30 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2022
Sending prayers and thoughts your way!
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2022
My sincerest condolences NTV.
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 4:56 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2022
So sorry for your loss; remember that everyone grieves in their own way, and no one way is better or worse than another's. So when you break down and cry, no matter how often, know that it's just as perfectly normal as the person who may not show their grief outwardly. It's one of the most prescient times in your life that taking care of yourself should be your priority.
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 12:32 AM on Thursday, March 3rd, 2022
NTV my friend. First person who responded to me here.
I am so so sorry for you and your family. I have tears because you gave so much here, made people laugh and feel included, and deserved a much longer life with your love.
May the Lord watch over all of you in the hour of your need.
And know, there are hundreds of us here who grieve with you. 
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 6:47 AM on Sunday, March 6th, 2022
NTV...my friend...I have no words.
Sending you all my love.
There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 10:09 PM on Sunday, March 6th, 2022
Oh NTV I'm so very sorry.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
annanew ( member #43693) posted at 7:18 PM on Monday, March 7th, 2022
That's crushing. I'm so sorry. This a unique type of loss, so it can be useful to consult a support group that is specific to it. There is one on facebook that is good - Suicide Survivors Loss & Support. As with this lovely group, there are a lot of folks in pain there, but there's also a lot of good advice on talking to the kids, handling the topic with others, etc.
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Single mom to a sweet girl.
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, March 7th, 2022
Adding my sympathy and holding you all in the LIGHT...
Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 10:22 AM on Tuesday, March 8th, 2022
I am so sorry for your loss. This is devastating.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 10:46 PM on Tuesday, March 8th, 2022
My deepest condolences, old friend. Wishing you peace moving forward.
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 1:00 AM on Thursday, March 10th, 2022
Oh my goodness!
I’m so very sorry!!!
Many 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 sent your way.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
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