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Years later, checking in

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 EEJJ (original poster member #44731) posted at 8:46 PM on Monday, March 18th, 2024

Hello my SI family. As the saying goes, sucks that we had to find this place but at the same time extremely glad I did. Jumped on and seen my initial post. 10 years ago I found this place. Time has flown by so fast. Well I do not want to make this one too long but just wanted to check in and will also be going through some JFO to help if I can just as many did the same for me.

I will also update my status on this thread as well, but for anyone reading this that is not aware of my story let me just say that there is definitely a light at the end of this crazy road. I owe so much to this site for helping me reach the next level. I have made some great friends here who I have met and chatted with outside of this site. Im sorry we are all here, but you are in the right place!

Will post more soon

BH...ME WW 38
Beautiful DD and great DS!!
dday 8.7.14
Status: Divorced 3.6.15
"God gives his toughest tests to his strongest soldiers"
"Sometimes you don't need to hear their excuses because their actions already spoke truth&

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 9:17 PM on Monday, March 18th, 2024

Thank you for checking in! So many here can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, hope you can make it just a little brighter for them. smile

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toby ( member #10337) posted at 5:27 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2024

I remember your story from years ago. Hell you went through. Hope you’re doing good.

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 EEJJ (original poster member #44731) posted at 6:16 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2024

Thank you Toby. Yeah definitely a super crazy situation. Believe it or not, the craziness continues on that side of things but I have learned to completely ignore it. I focused on my kids and now they are strong as well against the situation and im thankful for that. As for myself, yes all is well and im doing great. Definitely have alot I need to post about and will do soon. How are you Toby?

Annb, I definitely will do that. Its definitely needed. Especially how things are these days. But I will say, this place was crucial for me so I hope many understand that. I had posted in jfo years ago about falling and standing back up. Im gonna see if I can find it and repost it. I will post more soon

BH...ME WW 38
Beautiful DD and great DS!!
dday 8.7.14
Status: Divorced 3.6.15
"God gives his toughest tests to his strongest soldiers"
"Sometimes you don't need to hear their excuses because their actions already spoke truth&

posts: 726   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2014
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Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 2:16 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2024

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/540323/which-route-to-take/?ap=1

EEJ - might the above be your story? (or the beginning?)

There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."

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bluewater ( member #9297) posted at 5:17 AM on Saturday, March 30th, 2024

Hi EEJJ.

I too remember your story. Very happy to hear that you are in a much better place than you were when you first joined this community.

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