Missmee (original poster new member #86349) posted at 10:55 PM on Tuesday, August 26th, 2025
Another update today he has decided he doesn’t love me as he should. Yet he’s not actually left the family home.
Then I see OW in person and end up finding out they finished 5 weeks ago but were in contact 3 weeks ago which is when he left last time for a couple of days. Do I believe her I do a little bit. I think she’s fed up with the lies he’s told her too.
I’m glad he’s told me that he doesn’t love me how he should as now I feel I can move on and not worry that I didn’t try to out the work in.
I think in the next few weeks he will realise exactly what he has lost but by then will be far too late. I also don’t think he will try to come back I think he will just be miserable.
Am I hurt, definitely but I’m hopeful. I’m hoping now I can start rebuilding my new life. I’m just dreading everyone finding out as not everyone knows yet
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:19 AM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2025
Sorry he's such a jerk. Share what you're comfortable with sharing. For those who closer to you, share what you want. For those who are acquaintances, you don't have to share anything. A line a relative used was, "He preferred his women in quantity rather than quality, and I'm not ok with that."
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21